Have You Met Her

Friends have been complaining that I don't post much nowadays. Tired la after 9 years on the net. Don't feel like talking about stocks cause you get no credit and just get whacked whether a stock goes up or down - up (oh he works with syndicates), down (he is useless). Of course I can take the high road and say I couldn't care what haters say, but at the end of it, why do it at all. Might as well keep quiet. 












I do not allow adverts so I don't get paid a cent no matter how you cut it. Plus certain authorities do monitor what you post (on stocks) and its not to give me a prize if you know what I mean. So its not worth it.



Then my friends say that I should at least go back and do postings which got my blog popular in the first place - i.e. good selection of pretty Asian girls' photos. So here's Sabina Altynbekova. I know we would all be volleyball fans if we can just watch her play for Khazakstan. She is 20 this year and stands at 6 foot.










How much screen time is healthy for children?

Many parents are under the belief that technology and gadgets are essential for a child's development, but can you go too far? How much time should a child spend in front of a screen is a question being asked not just by worried parents but psychologists, health organisations and even governments. Read an expert's guidelines for managing a child's screen time, and his warnings on the dangers of recreational screen time, especially before bedtime.

A new TLF Panel survey conducted on behalf of kids clothing retailer Vertbaudet.co.uk found that four in five parents believe technology and gadgets are good for kids, aiding in their development. The study found that 37 percent of parents asked said that their child spent between one and two hours a day playing with tech gadgets, and 28 percent said between two- and three hours. Moreover, the study found that 38 percent of two- to five-year-olds own an Android tablet, and 32 percent own an iPad; almost a third (32 percent) of these kids also have a mobile phone.

The reason behind all this gadget use: over a third of parents (35 percent) said they use tech gadgets to entertain their children because they are convenient, and nearly a quarter (23 percent) because they want their children to be tech-savvy. A 2015 survey of 1,000 British mothers of children aged 2 to 12 found that 85 percent of mums admit to using technology to keep the kids occupied while they get on with other activities. The AO.com survey pointed to children spending on average around 17 hours a week in front of a screen – almost double the 8.8 weekly hours spent playing outside.

Wanting our children to tech-savvy is understandable, and the need to keep them entertained will also make sense to many a parent. But we must also weigh up the risks associated with children having too much screen time.

In his lecture ‘Managing Screen Time and Screen Dependency’ Dr Aric Sigman argues that “whether it’s Facebook, the internet or computer games, screen time is no longer merely a cultural issue about how children spend their leisure time, nor is it confined to concern over the educational value or inappropriate content – it’s a medical issue”.

Sigman is concerned less with a child’s ICT or Computer Science study or use of computers for homework, but more with their screen time in non-educational environments in front of entertainment screen media such as television, the internet and computer games. He has some strong recommendations for reducing children's screen time, from toddlers to teenagers – and adults, too.

Surprise new Sony smartphone series unveiled at MWC

Sony surprised us by launching an all-new series of smartphones at its press conference at MWC 2016 in Barcelona on 22 February. Called the “X” series, it currently consists of two new smartphones: the Xperia X and the Xperia XA. Read on to find out everything we know so far about the Sony Xperia X and the Sony Xperia XA.

Both the Xperia X and Xperia XA boast next generation camera technology, battery and design. They take a whole new direction for Sony, and the company says that the new series “embodies Sony Mobile's new brand vision.”
Sony Xperia X release date: When is the Sony Xperia X coming out?

So far, all we know about the Sony Xperia X and XA's release date is that it'll be some time in the summer, but Sony wasn't sharing anything more specific than that. We'll update this article as soon as we find out more about exactly when the Xperia X series will hit the shops.
Sony Xperia X design

The Xperia X phones look a bit different to Sony's blocky Z series, with curved glass displays and rounded edges that make the frame continuous, designed to feel comfortable in the hand. And the XA takes things one step further with an edge-to-edge display. Both are 5 inches diagonally, with a Full HD screen for the X and a 720p display for the XA. They both measure 7.9 mm thick.
As an extra touch, the Xperia X and Xperia XA also have matching Style Covers available in white, graphite black, lime gold and rose gold, the four colours available for the phone itself. We're not too keen on the lime gold but white and graphite black are nice.
Sony Xperia X specs & features

Both smartphones offer the next generation Xperia camera, with super-fast and sharp spontaneous photos, and the Xperia X goes on to add Predictive Hybrid Autofocus into the mix. The new autofocus feature lets you pick a subject and then predicts its motion to keep the focus trained on it. We're looking forward to trying this for ourselves to see how well it works, so keep an eye out for our hands-on review coming this week.

More specifically, the Xperia X's rear camera is 23Mp, while the front-facing camera is 13Mp, while the XA has a 13Mp rear camera and an 8MP front camera.

The Xperia X is powered by the Qualcomm Snapdragon 650, so not the fastest processor by any means but we'll see how it fairs in our benchmark tests. Similar processors can be found in the likes of the Xiaomi Redmi Note 3 Pro and the Samsung Galaxy A9, while flagship phones from Sony, Samsung and more boast more powerful processors in the Snapdragon 800 series.

Meanwhile the XA has a MediaTek MT6755 octacore processor.

There's a microSD card slot for up to 200GB of storage in both smartphones.

The X series also includes smart battery management, which aims to deliver up to two days battery life on one charge.


Tags: Smartphones, MWC
How to watch Samsung Galaxy S7 & S7 Edge launch live stream

How to watch Samsung Galaxy S7 & S7 Edge launch live stream


Even if you're not at Samsung Unpacked 2016, you can watch the Galaxy S7 and S7 Edge launch live with full 360-degree video. Here's how to watch the Samsung Galaxy S7 launch live stream and follow our Galaxy S7 launch live blog for expert commentary from MWC 2016.


ALSO SEE: SAMSUNG GALAXY S7 & S7 EDGE UK RELEASE DATE, PRICE, FEATURES & SPECIFICATIONS
How to watch Samsung Galaxy S7 & S7 Edge launch live stream: When is the Samsung Galaxy S7, S7 Edge launch?

The Samsung Galaxy S7 and Galaxy S7 Edge will be unveiled at Samsung Unpacked 2016, which will be held on Sunday 21 February in Barcelona, the day before the MWC 2016 doors open. The Galaxy S7 launch kicks off at 6pm UK time (7pm CET), so be sure to bookmark us now and return just before 6pm on Sunday for a live stream of the event, plus our Galaxy S7 and S7 Edge live blog. Also see: What to expect from MWC 2016.
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How to watch Samsung Galaxy S7 & S7 Edge launch live stream: Samsung Unpacked 2016 live video stream

We'll be embedding a live stream to the top of this page before 6pm on Sunday, and with reporters at the event you will also be able to follow our live blog (below) for full details behind the scenes at the Samsung Galaxy S7 and S7 Edge launch.

However, for the first time Samsung will broadcast Samsung Unpacked with full 360-degree video, and you can choose to watch from the auditorium, stage left, stage right or from centre stage. There are a three ways you can tune in to Samsung Unpacked 2016: through a desktop browser, through a mobile app for Android or iOS, and through Samsung Gear VR.

Actually, make that four ways, as you'll also be able to watch Samsung Unpacked 2016 right on this very page. Also see: Best smartphones 2016.
How to watch Samsung Galaxy S7 & S7 Edge launch live stream: Watch Samsung Galaxy S7 launch live on a PC or laptop

• Open your web browser and head to samsung.com/global/galaxy/events/unpacked/#360 before 6pm (UK time) on Sunday 21 February 2016

• Click to view from the auditorium, stage left, stage right, or centre stage

• Sit back and watch Samsung unveil the Galaxy S7 and S7 Edge at Samsung Unpacked 2016

(Right now the page is showing the video from Unpacked 2015, but it will be updated before Unpacked 2016 begins.)

How to watch Samsung Galaxy S7 & S7 Edge launch live stream: Watch Samsung Galaxy S7 launch live on a phone or tablet

• On an Android phone or tablet open the Google Play Store app; on an iPhone or iPad launch the App Store

• Search for, download and install the Unpacked 360 View app

• At 6pm (UK time) on Sunday 21 February, launch the app and choose your viewing angle to begin streaming. If youdon't have an unlimited mobile data tariff, turn on Wi-Fi to avoid getting a huge phone bill

• Sit back and watch Samsung unveil the Galaxy S7 and S7 Edge at Samsung Unpacked 2016
How to watch Samsung Galaxy S7 & S7 Edge launch live stream: Watch Samsung Galaxy S7 launch live on Samsung Gear VR

• Open the Oculus Store, then search for, download and install the Unpacked 360 View app

• Using the Gear VR headset launch the app, then select your viewing postion

• Sit back and watch Samsung unveil the Galaxy S7 and S7 Edge at Samsung Unpacked 2016

Also see: Best Android phone 2016.
How to watch Samsung Galaxy S7 & S7 Edge launch live stream: Samsung Galaxy S7 launch live blog
How to watch Samsung Galaxy S7 & S7 Edge launch live stream: What to expect from Samsung Unpacked 2016

It's no secret: at Samsung Unpacked 2016 Samsung will unveil the Samsung Galaxy S7 and Samsung Galaxy S7 Edge. We've got a complete guide to the Galaxy S7 and S7 Edge rumours right here, but here are some highlights:

• The Galaxy S7 will be unveiled alongside the S7 Edge on 21 February, and go on sale on 11 March, with the 32GB models likely to cost 699- and 799 Euros respectively

• The much improved Galaxy S6 design will remain, almost certainly complete with the fingerprint scanner, heart-rate monitor and IR blaster, but the best news for long-time Samsung fans is that both waterproofing and a MicroSD card slot for expandable storage are expected to return

• Rather than Samsung's own Exynos processor, the Galaxy S7 and S7 Edge are likely to come with the Qualcomm Snapdragon 820, which supports even faster charging with Quick Charge 3.0

• Also expect to find Adreno 530 graphics, 4GB of LP-DDR4 RAM and 32- or 64GB of storage

• The screen is likely to be pressure-sensitive, much like Apple's Force Touch technology

• Also like Apple's iPhone, there may well be a feature similar to Apple's Live Photos. However, the camera spec itself is something we'll have to wait and see - some sources say Samsung will use Sony's 23Mp IMX300 camera, as seen in the Sony Xperia Z5, others say it will be bumped up to 20Mp, and still others say it will be reduced to 12Mp

• Battery life is expected to be much improved, now at a potential 17 hours

• Contrary to expectations, the Galaxy S7 and S7 Edge may feature Micro-USB rather than USB-C for data transfer and charging
What to expect from Huawei's MWC 2016 announcement, plus our live blog from the event

What to expect from Huawei's MWC 2016 announcement, plus our live blog from the event

Huawei is at MWC 2016 this weekend, tipped to launch a new smartphone and possibly even a new tablet. Here's how to keep up to date with the latest Huawei product announcements at the conference, and also what we expect to see. Also see: What to expect from MWC 2016.
How to watch Huawei MWC 2016 launch

Huawei is descending upon MWC 2016 and looks to announce a handful of new products - if rumours are to be believed anyway. Previous company announcements have been live streamed via YouTube, but sadly Huawei looks to be taking a different route this time around. Unlike with previous Huawei announcements, the company has decided not to host a livestream of its event at MWC on Barcelona on Sunday February 21.

While this is disappointing for Huawei fans around the world, we can offer you the next best thing - a live blog. We'll be at the event on Sunday, and will be blogging everything that is announced. Make sure you head back here at around 1pm GMT on Sunday 21 February 2016 to find out all about the latest products announced by Huawei at the event.
Huawei MWC 2016 live blog

What to expect from Huawei at MWC 2016: Huawei P9


The Huawei P8 was a hugely popular phone, but it was released almost a year ago in April 2015. That means it's due for an update - and what better time to announce a new smartphone than at Mobile World Congress? Rumours suggest we'll be seeing the Huawei P9 make an appearance at the event, although details of the smartphone are pretty scarce.

Based on rumours, we expect the Huawei P9 to have a premium design to match that of the P8, along with a full HD display - although we're not quite sure of the size. Some reports claim that as many as four screen sizes will be available after launch, ranging from 5- to 6.8in., which if true is an interesting move from the company. Along with a full HD display, expect to find a whopping 6GB of RAM, a  rear-facing dual camera setup with a 16Mp sensor, a back-mounted fingerprint scanner and a Kirin 950 processor.

Of course, these are rumours so take them with a pinch of salt, although if true, the Huawei P9 is set to be a pretty impressive smartphone.
What to expect from Huawei at MWC 2016: New tablet

While many assumed that the Huawei P9 would be the only new product announced at MWC 2016, another rumour recently surfaced which, if true, would see a second product announced at the event. The rumour suggests that Huawei is to launch a dual-boot notebook capable of running both Windows and Android operating systems. The notebook may also feature an Intel processor and possibly a stylus, which was recently hinted by Huawei's own Twitter account.

The notebook also features a detachable display, making it comparable to Microsoft's Surface Pro 4 and similar tablet/laptop hybrids. Obviously, this rumour is pretty fresh so don't hold your breath that we'll be seeing it on Sunday - but who knows? Huawei, that's who.

Ola Bola ... Talking Points

I watched it the first day it came out. How much was hype? I will say more later. Social media is abuzz with talking points. I was there, though very very young... so I can relate a bit better. My views in blue.

Below were excerpts of online comments:


> “It should be Eric Yong (James Wong,) the pride of Sabah, to score the historical goal, never understand why Ali is the scorer.... Why change the proud history of Malaysian football.... a very poor presentation of Malaysia football history...OlaBola....u can never cheat history.
Strictly speaking, IT IS NOT A DOCUMENTARY ... why don't you hit out on how good looking Keong was, supposedly to be Soh Chin Aun (tauke), I respect Chin Aun a lot as possibly the best defender Malaysia has ever produced but he is no looker. BUT if its not a documentary, it was BASED on real life events... it was, and they actually went as far as going to Sabah taking the train to talk to a supposedly ex-Sabah national player ... so obviously Eric in the movie was James Wong's "character somewhat" .. I know its not supposed to be accurate but you go all the way to try and replicate the FEELING OF MUHIBBAH, the Malaysia Boleh spirit, the fight for nation spirit ... why tamper with the scores and the scorer??? If it does not matter, why tamper??? Obviously its to make a deliberate attempt to balance out the racial focus of the movie - the tauke had a large portion of it, followed by Muthu's (Arumugam) family ... and in trying not to leave out the Malays, ...Ali became the scorer?? When do we have to be politically correct in creative arts, I guess thats why its called creative. I supposed the film maker would have wanted to stay true BUT look at the humungous number of advertisers and sponsors behind the film - I am sure THEY HAD A FUCKED UP say in it. The director/writer gets the brunt of it but somehow I think its NOT HIS FAULT. 
> Don’t waste your money and time to watch the movie, OlaBola! I was going to watch it few days ago in KL due to rave reviews but my bro-in-law and friends confirmed that not Eric but Ali who scored.
Again, to boycott the movie because of that one fact is just silly. It is not a historical documentary, in as much as Titanic was based on real events but you know there was no fucking Jack shouting "I am KING OF THE WORLD" in reality. But most of us enjoyed it. I can see the stupidity in having Ali scoring the goal - the biggest discredit is to have a whole new generation NOT knowing that it was James Wong who scored. But thanks to the uproar in social media - like it or not, now EVERYBODY KNOWS King James Wong scored the fucking goal!!! 

Imagine a film based on real events about Malaysia's independence, BUT NOT A DOCUMENTARY and you have Sinnapiah Samy shouting "Merdeka, Merdeka, Merdeka"...  at the stadium - you can do that but people will cringe at how far you went beyond real life events. 
Its a reprehensible fault but not big enough to detract from the overall good movie and execution.

> The younger n future generations MUST know the TRUE facts of Malaysia football.
> All of us here have a very strong feeling about being a Sabahan and the way we have been treated by our West Malaysian counterparts.
OK, don't be overly sensitive my beloved East Malaysians. The film actually shot a lot of scenes in Sabah, its beautiful. We get too sensitive about that ONE THING that distracts from the overall. Yes, I believe East Malaysians have been "mis-treated" in many ways. Look at Malaysia Day, when did it actually became a holiday? But we are still a young country and these things evolve and we learn. Our parents who live in West Malaysia rarely got the chance to visit East Malaysia during their heydays - but I think it would be fair to assume the majority of us below 40 have done so nowadays. Some things are NOT TAUGHT at school, we learn as we go along. Of course its largely the government's fault.
> The movie is not a documentary or biography. Names and storyline can be changed and also altered for the big screen. The movie’s main theme is about the true spirit of 1Malaysia. That’s the main message of the movie if we look at it from bigger picture.
Overall, the movie is a 7/10 ... not a 9 or a 10. The storyline is mushy and predictable. The acting was pretty good though I must say. The best thing about the film, the cinematography, the lensing and framing of scenic shots were superb. Who knew Malaysia was so pretty. The other good thing was how the team stayed true to the 70s in terms of the dressing, artefacts, ... the 70s fun-fair was exactly the way it was. Plus the theme song was fantastic.

I wondered why didn't the team stick to the truth and obtain permission from players to get at as close to the truth in the movie. 

Another thing is that the movie will gross a lot of money, as of last week its passing RM12m, a lot for a local film. BUT look at the power of advertising and commercials. Can someone tabulate how much would it cost to have that many advertisements on Astro??? Maybe RM12m also. I can safely say, without the powerful sponsors, Ola Bola would just be a middling success in box office locally. I am sure there are many struggling local film makers who would have balked and vomitted at the incessant deluge of commercials and song plays on Ola Bola. Imagine the brilliant local movie JAGAT, who only had a few days at the local cinemas before being pulled - how they could do with just 1/10th of the commercials Ola Bola had. Fair/Unfair ... pls vote now!!!

While it is all good to remember the team that got the second Olympic qualification, I am quite sure that they HAD ALL THEIR AMBITIONS, TENACITY and INSPIRATION from the earlier team who ACTUALLY got to go to the Olympics. The 1970s team ... did not get their deserved accolades as well. In fact the 80s team, I am sure would say their heroes were the following 1970s superstars (I may have left out a few):
SYED AHMAD
WONG CHOON WAH
ALI BAKAR
ISA BAKAR
SALLEH IBRAHIM
M CHANDRAN
MOKHTAR DAHARI
LIM FUNG KEE
SHAHARUDDIN ABDULLAH
M BAKAR
HARUN JUSOH
UMAPARAN
REDUAN ABDULLAH
WONG KOU FOU
BAKRI IBNI
SHUKOR SALLEH


These are the players that paved the way... that allowed the younger Malaysians to dream of the possible.


Life is not fair. As corporations with a heart, as a government who may start to have a heart ... do what is right, support good efforts fairly, as equitably as you can. Political correctness has no place in a true blue Malaysia.

How To Add Your Website To Google Search Console

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Warning: You must have an account with a Google in order to connect your site to Google Search Console (formerly Google Webmaster Tools).
  1. Yoast SEO allows you to connect your website to Google Search Console (formerly Google Webmaster Tools) so you can track how Google is indexing your website.
  2. Go to  Google Search Console (former Google Webmaster Tools), sign into your Google account and click the red button to add your website.
  3. Once you've clicked the button to add your site, just type your website's URL in the box. Click the blue button to continue. 
  4. Get the code.You will want to use the HTML tag under the Alternative Method. Only copy the code that is in the parenthesis after content, as per the image below.
  5. Log in to your WordPress website. When you're logged in, you will be in your 'Dashboard'. On the left-hand side, you will see a menu. In that menu, click on 'SEO'. 
  6. The 'SEO' settings will expand providing you additional options. Click on 'General'. 
  7. Click on the 'Webmaster Tools' tab and add the code under 'Google Search Console'. Click 'Save Changes'. 
  8. Switch back to Google Search Console (formerly Google Webmaster Tools) and click 'Verify'. (See image in Step 3) 

Congratulations! You've connected your website to Google Search Console (former Google Webmaster Tools)! Now that you've verified and connected your website, you can submit your sitemap!

How to type emoji on Android and How to add smileys in Twitter for Android

Time was when the Wingdings font (remember that?) was the only option if you wanted to use ‘special’ characters, but these days emojis – or emoticons – litter our messages, Facebook posts and – sometimes – tweets. But how do you enable emojis on Android, and how do you add them to tweets? Here’s everything you need to know about using emojis on Android.

Because of its open source nature, just about every Android phone is different. Yours may already have an emoji button on the keyboard, but the chances are you’re reading this precisely because it doesn’t – or because the emoji button is missing when you fire up Twitter and try to tweet with a smiley.

Well, we have the answer: it’s all in the keyboard you use. (Note: some older Android devices don’t support emojis. You’ll know if yours is one of them if you see squares instead of emojis when friends send them to you in messages, or you see squares in Facebook posts or web search results.)


How to type emoji on Android: Install the Google keyboard

By default, your phone is probably using the maker’s own keyboard. Whether it’s Samsung, HTC, Sony, Huawei or something else, each manufacturer likes to tweak the Android / Google keyboard and add their own touches.

But if it doesn’t have an emoji button – Samsung’s certainly does – then you can install the stock Google keyboard. Just open the Play Store and search for Google Keyboard and install it.

Then, head to your phone’s settings, look for a ‘Language & input’ menu or similar – it’s different on different Android phones – and find the Default keyboard menu where you can select which keyboard to use. Make the Google keyboard (or Android keyboard) the default and you should see a smiley symbol at the bottom right when the keyboard next pops up.

If not, check the bar above the keyboard, or in the text-entry box as different apps have the icon in different places.

If you have a Bluetooth keyboard connected to your Android phone or tablet, you can hit the Alt key to bring up the emoji palette.

How to add emojis in Twitter on Android

The emoji button disappears in Twitter on many Android phones, including Google’s own Nexus 6P and 5X.

One solution is to install the Swiftkey keyboard. It’s free from the Play Store, and installing it takes just a minute or two - just like the Google keyboard. You can install multiple keyboards, so it isn’t a case of choosing one or the other.

Update: Thanks to commenter Alfu (see below) we now know the solution we simply couldn't find before: you long-press on the Return / Enter key on the Google keyboard and the emoji button will appear above it. Just swipe to it and you can choose the smiley you're after:



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How to tackle extortion attacks in 2016

Ransomware has been one of the most lucrative businesses for cybercriminals – and a major pain for end-users and businesses – for the past couple of years.

At first only the Windows operating system was targeted, but the status quo changed when Linux and Android ransomware samples started claiming victims. While security experts agree it was bound to happen, this diversification can only bring forth a 2016 that’s scary for the average internet user and profitable for malware developers.

The Leap towards Extortionware

Among Bitdefender’s predictions for 2016, ransomware is not only a top concern, it will also change the way we perceive personal data. If until now it simply encrypted data and demanded payment for unlocking access to critical information, in 2016 it will move towards extortionware by threatening to also post all accessed data online.

Consumers who chose not to pay can always recover their data online once it’s posted. However, for businesses and large companies that get hit, this might not be a viable option. While personal files, such as photos or documents, might be sensitive to the average user, companies would be far more impacted by having critical and potentially confidential data posted online.

Consequently, when faced with public shaming for slack security coupled with a crippled company reputation, extortionware might be a far more profitable business for cybercriminals when targeting SMBs.

Linux.Encoder is Just the Beginning

The new Linux ransomware, dubbed Linux.Encoder, has been affecting web servers for the past couple of months. While still in its infancy, the three variations – Linux.Encoder1, Linux.Encoder2 and Linux.Encoder3 – are flawed, as security researchers from Bitdefender have managed to crack the encryption and provide a free Linux.Encoder decryption tool for any infected victim.

The truly scary part about Linux ransomware is that the internet is based on Linux-powered web servers that sometimes host more than one website. If an unpatched Linux web server is exploited and infected with Linux ransomware, all hosted websites could be affected. To this end, it’s entirely likely that, if an unbreakable Linux.Encoder distribution is created, damages could be catastrophic.

Android Ransomware Upping the Game

Although current Android ransomware has focused on locking the device’s screen or only encrypting information on external memory cards, the new techniques will not only make it more persistent but also more difficult to dodge.

In terms of malware, the Android operating system has been slowly emulating the behaviour of Windows threats, with ransomware among them. While currently removing a ransomware infection could be handled with a “Restore to factory settings” even with some really persistent threats, future ransomware capabilities could negate this option.

Experienced ransomware malware developers will make it increasingly difficult for end users to recover their device’s functionality, either by making it extremely difficult to access “Safe Mode” features or by successfully encrypting on-device data.

Is there Ransomware Protection?
Security experts argue that the best defence against ransomware lies in combining a security solution with an efficient offline back-up mechanism and increased user awareness. While these are indeed viable solutions, Bitdefender has also recently introduced anti-ransomware technology in its consumer products that can help protect documents, files and even photos from being encrypted.

For instance, if a computer gets infected with an unknown variant of ransomware, this anti-ransomware technology will prevent the malware from encrypting files stored in “My Documents”, “My Videos”, or “Pictures”. Of course, users can also add their own custom directory to protect with the same technology.

Additionally, it’s highly recommended that all installed software – along with your operating system - should be updated with the latest security patches to avoid having it exploited through unpatched vulnerabilities.

This article is brought to you in association with Bitdefender.

How to block spam email on Android

It was reported toward the end of last year that Google would update its Gmail for Android app and introduce 'Block' and 'Unsubscribe' options to the Settings menu for individual emails. This is great news, and should make it much easier to block an email or unsubscribe from an email in a couple of taps, but we've yet to see the update filter through to the app. In the meantime, we'll show you how to block or unsubscribe from email on an Android phone or tablet. Also see: What's the best free email service?

If you're looking for a way to block spam messages from Gmail for Android, it's important to first differentiate between spam messages and those emails from companies you have perhaps unwittingly authorised to send you marketing information at some point in the past.

When you mark an email as spam it stops that message being a problem for you, but it can cause problems for others down the line. Marking an email as spam flags it up to Google, which will investigate if it gets multiple complaints about the same domain. If Google decides to act on it that address could become blacklisted, which clearly affects more people beyond you.

If you've ever bought any goods or services online then you will know exactly what we mean by email that is annoying but not spam. You more than likely neglected to remove a tick box at checkout, thereby authorising them to send you marketing information by email. It's irritating and you want it to stop, but marking this email as spam is not the answer. Also see: How to undo send in Gmail.
How to unsubscribe from spam email in Android

If an email is sent from a legitimate company, there should be an unsubscribe link somewhere within it. This might be right at the bottom of the email, and it might be in tiny print, but we bet you it's there. Unsubscribing from these emails is a much better solution than marking them as spam because it stops them being sent to you in the first place, rather than blocking them once they have been sent.

How to block spam email in Android


If you're frequently getting messages from a company you know you've never dealt with or given permission to email you, these are more than likely spam. Reporting it as such within Gmail for Android is easy.

To report a Gmail message as spam either open it or tap and hold it in the conversation list pane to select it, then tap the three vertical dots icon at the top of Gmail and choose 'Report as spam'. It's that easy.

How to block Gmail messages from specific senders


If you have access to a desktop browser in which you can view your Gmail messages (on a PC, laptop or tablet), there is also an option to block messages from a specific sender. Open the email in the desktop version of Gmail and click the downward arrow icon to the top right of the Gmail message. Here you'll find an option to Block "X", where X is the sender of the email. Tap this to stop them sending you spam messages in the future.

How to wipe a laptop: Make sure your data is deleted before selling your PC

We carry a large amount of personal data on our laptops - from family photographs to bank account details. We’ll show you how to remove it all in a few easy steps. Here's how to wipe a laptop.
As our lives become ever more digital the amount of personal information stored on our laptops increases all the time. Wiping all of this data when selling a machine is an essential process, not only as it protects your personal information, but also because the buyer receives a relatively new laptop. In fact it’s actually a good idea to reinstall Windows every couple of years or so just to clear out files and processes that build up over time and slow a PC down. In this guide we’ll show you how to quickly and easily wipe your laptop with the free software included in every Windows 8.1 machine. If your data is particularly sensitive, then it might be worth using a dedicated secure erase program such as Eraser which adopts a more aggressive approach to your files. 

On Windows 7 machines the process is a little different. The easiest way is to insert the original Windows disk that came with the machine, reboot your PC, then enter the BIOS and change the Boot Sequence so that CD/ROM is first. Now reboot again and you should be taken to the Windows installation menu where you can begin a fresh install.

Before we begin though it is of the utmost importance that you backup any data you need, as the reinstall process will delete all the files on your laptop. You can do this in Windows 8 using the File History feature, or Windows Backup in Windows 7. Alternatively there are a number of backup solutions available from companies such as Pipemetrics and Easeus.
How to wipe a laptop: Step by step guide for Windows 8.1

Step 1: On your Windows 8 machine open the charms bar on the right hand side of the screen by either moving your mouse pointer over there, pressing Windows+C, or swiping in from the right on a touchscreen laptop.

Step 2: Click on the Settings icon (the one that looks like a gear cog) at the bottom of the Charms bar then you’ll be presented with another menu. At the bottom are the words ‘Change PC settings’ click on this.Step 3: In the PC settings menu you’ll see a large panel on the right and a menu column on the left. In the column are a number of options. The one we want is Update and recovery, so click on this.Step 4: The next menu follows the same layout, only with a few less options this time. Although it might seem a little odd, as we’re soon to wipe the hard drive, the setting we need is Recovery. Select this.

Step 5: Now you have three main options. As we want to wipe all the files from the hard drive we’ll need to select ‘Remove everything and reinstall Windows’. Don’t worry, clicking on it won’t start the wipe straight away, so click Get Started.

how to wipe a laptop
Step 6: The next screen can be a little scary, as it features a dialog box warning you what will happen when you reset your PC. Clicking Next won’t start the procedure, but this is an excellent time to ensure you’ve backed up all your data.Step 7: If your laptop has more than one drive installed, or if it has been partitioned to have virtual drives, then you’ll be presented with the option to decide which ones are wiped - either just the drive with Windows installed, or all of them. Select the latter, just to be safe.

Step 8: We have now reached the point of no return. Clicking on an option here will begin the wipe, so all that remains is which method to choose. To wipe the machine it needs to be ‘Clean the drive fully’. Click this then Windows will delete all files and reinstall itself.

 

how smart is home automation?

Which smart switch is best? What do smart switches do, and are they worth the money? We test two of the contenders: the Belkin WeMo Insight Switch, and the Efergy Ego. Also read our review of the Wemo LED lighting starter set

Just as smart thermostats are muscling in on old boiler timers today’s smart switches are having a good go at yesterday’s twiddly timer switches. But is smart as smart as it thinks it is? Read: Best smart home heating systems.

A smart TV can show catch-up TV channels such as BBC iPlayer and 4oD, let you browse the web, search for YouTube videos, and access Netflix and Amazon Prime, plus a ton of stuff you’ll never check out. Read: Netflix vs Amazon Prime.

So what is a smart switch?

Basically it’s a switch that you plug into a power socket, and then plug another device’s plug into so you can control it via an app on your smartphone or tablet over Wi-Fi.

With the best smart switches you can set schedules, monitor energy usage on electronic devices, and find out which devices are used most often and when. Armed with such data you can start saving on your home’s domestic electricity usage. Read: Home energy saving tips.

Sounds interesting, but is it really useful?


The not-very-smart traditional power timer switch is pretty handy at switching things like lights, kettles and fish tanks on at set times or intervals. You can buy an analogue timer switch for under a fiver, or get a fancy digital one for a few pounds more.

The digital smart switch is brighter (and a lot more expensive), linking with a smartphone app for device control wherever you are with an internet connection (Wi-Fi, 3G, 4G, etc).

Overriding an old-school, analogue or digital timer switch was possible only manually. With a smart switch you can fiddle around with appliance control all day from the other side of the world. And not only just because you can.

Say you stay out longer than you were expecting to (“Go on, just one more pint:”) and really want a light on inside your house to pretend you’re home. With a dumb-ish switch you’re stuffed. With a smart switch you’re only dumb if you let your phone run out of battery.

Tap the app, select the smart switch you’re after, and turn on the light. Bingo.


Analogue or digital timers are great but not so smart if you bend your schedule or are unsure when you might be home. For instance, say you want your home to be nice and toasty when you get home from work, but you return at different times each day. With a smart switch you can turn on a heater when it’s best for you, directly from your smartphone.

Some experts think you could save on your energy bills by powering down your fridge freezer for a couple of hours a day.


Energy companies are keen because the grid almost falls over every night between 5pm and 7pm as everyone gets home and puts on the TV and the kettle. (Do people really put the kettle on when they get home these days? Most people I know reach into the fridge for a bottle of white. Imagine their horror when they realise the fridge has been off for two hours…)

Another handy use for a smart switch will interest many men, but appal the ladies in the house. Cold-averse women are wont to leave the fan heater on even when they leave the room. Evil, scheming husbands and fathers can ensure that it stays on for no more than an hour, meaning cheaper electric bills, less chance of burning to death every night, and a blood-curdling scowl from a freezing woman. On second thoughts…

With a smart switch you could control the TV in your child's room from the comfort of your armchair, although popping your head around the door and/or reading them a book would be better parenting. Read: How much screen time is safe for kids.

One of the more appealing functions of smart switches is energy use and cost monitoring. Devices are often left on Standby when not in use for large parts of the day, and Standby use accounts for around up to 16 percent of the average electricity bill, reckons energy gadget maker Efergy.

With a smart switch you can dramatically cut down on this wasted Standby time. Efergy’s own Ego smart socket, see review below, is especially clever at cutting back on Standby time.

Smart switches aren’t yet so cheap that you don’t have to think long and hard about whether you really need one or not. And if they are so useful you probably need more than one, so the cost comes into even sharper view.

But with their energy-monitoring features smart switches do hold some promise for actually saving you money: via usage data, and Standby blocking.

And there’s enough on offer to save you time and effort, too, in the day. Fill your kettle or coffee maker in the morning, and turn it on via the app when you get out of bed so that it has boiled by the time you get to your kitchen. This might sound a very lazy use of technology, but it's a daily time saver – if you remember to fill the kettle the night before!

The ability to turn devices on and off via Wi-Fi from afar, plus on various timed schedules, is useful. Seeing the energy usage and costs of various devices could help you save money, but this would be even more useful if such switches could monitor multiple devices on a power strip.

Belkin WeMo Insight Switch review

Priced at £49.95 the Belkin WeMo Insight Switch certainly isn’t cheap but could save you cash in the long term.

The Insight Switch is part of a larger WeMo home-automation series of products, including Smart LED Bulbs and Light Switch, and WeMo Motion.

Setting up the WeMo Insight Switch is straightforward, if a little long-winded at first. It took us a couple of goes to get it to recognise our Wi-Fi.

Plug the Switch into a power outlet in your home and then plug your chosen device into the Switch. Download the free WeMo App (iOS and Android), and pair it with the Switch and your Wi-Fi network.

Aside from turning things off without getting off your backside WeMo can inform you when, for instance, a laundry cycle is complete, which is actually rather handy. This is set up in the WeMo app’s clever Rules section.
Or you could be alerted when your child has exceeded his or her allotted screen/TV time. You could even set notifications so you know when little Jonny or Jane is playing on the Xbox instead of doing homework. Read: How much screen time is too much?
Via the app you set rules that trigger the power according to preset times, or to respond automatically to sunrise and sunset, or through motion detection via Belkin's WeMo Motion detector (an extra £64).
Rules can be set for: Weekends; Weekdays; and, Individual days. And allow for: Turn on only; Turn off only; and, Turn on then off.
The Insight Switch won’t look out of place in your home, although no doubt you’ll be asked what it is by nosy neighbours and friends. It is quite bulky, and can partially block adjacent power outlets’ flick switches.
There’s a very visible green power-on indicator on top, and, weirdly, a Micro USB port that currently has no function.
How to tackle extortion attacks in 2016

How to tackle extortion attacks in 2016

Ransomware has been one of the most lucrative businesses for cybercriminals – and a major pain for end-users and businesses – for the past couple of years.

At first only the Windows operating system was targeted, but the status quo changed when Linux and Android ransomware samples started claiming victims. While security experts agree it was bound to happen, this diversification can only bring forth a 2016 that’s scary for the average internet user and profitable for malware developers.

The Leap towards Extortionware

Among Bitdefender’s predictions for 2016, ransomware is not only a top concern, it will also change the way we perceive personal data. If until now it simply encrypted data and demanded payment for unlocking access to critical information, in 2016 it will move towards extortionware by threatening to also post all accessed data online.

Consumers who chose not to pay can always recover their data online once it’s posted. However, for businesses and large companies that get hit, this might not be a viable option. While personal files, such as photos or documents, might be sensitive to the average user, companies would be far more impacted by having critical and potentially confidential data posted online.

Consequently, when faced with public shaming for slack security coupled with a crippled company reputation, extortionware might be a far more profitable business for cybercriminals when targeting SMBs.

Linux.Encoder is Just the Beginning

The new Linux ransomware, dubbed Linux.Encoder, has been affecting web servers for the past couple of months. While still in its infancy, the three variations – Linux.Encoder1, Linux.Encoder2 and Linux.Encoder3 – are flawed, as security researchers from Bitdefender have managed to crack the encryption and provide a free Linux.Encoder decryption tool for any infected victim.

The truly scary part about Linux ransomware is that the internet is based on Linux-powered web servers that sometimes host more than one website. If an unpatched Linux web server is exploited and infected with Linux ransomware, all hosted websites could be affected. To this end, it’s entirely likely that, if an unbreakable Linux.Encoder distribution is created, damages could be catastrophic.
Android Ransomware Upping the Game

Although current Android ransomware has focused on locking the device’s screen or only encrypting information on external memory cards, the new techniques will not only make it more persistent but also more difficult to dodge.

In terms of malware, the Android operating system has been slowly emulating the behaviour of Windows threats, with ransomware among them. While currently removing a ransomware infection could be handled with a “Restore to factory settings” even with some really persistent threats, future ransomware capabilities could negate this option.

Experienced ransomware malware developers will make it increasingly difficult for end users to recover their device’s functionality, either by making it extremely difficult to access “Safe Mode” features or by successfully encrypting on-device data.
Is there Ransomware Protection?

Security experts argue that the best defence against ransomware lies in combining a security solution with an efficient offline back-up mechanism and increased user awareness. While these are indeed viable solutions, Bitdefender has also recently introduced anti-ransomware technology in its consumer products that can help protect documents, files and even photos from being encrypted.

For instance, if a computer gets infected with an unknown variant of ransomware, this anti-ransomware technology will prevent the malware from encrypting files stored in “My Documents”, “My Videos”, or “Pictures”. Of course, users can also add their own custom directory to protect with the same technology.

Additionally, it’s highly recommended that all installed software – along with your operating system - should be updated with the latest security patches to avoid having it exploited through unpatched vulnerabilities.

This article is brought to you in association with Bitdefender.

Best tools to hide your location online and access blocked content - VPN services explained - best virtual private network services - best VPN reviews

If you're concerned about online privacy, a virtual private network (VPN) will help keep snoopers at bay. We round up the six best VPN services for hiding your location online and allowing you to access blocked content and blocked sites. (Also see: Best free VPN services 2016.)

Before you even start looking for the best VPN to suit your needs, you should consider if it is a Virtual Private Network service that you actually require. The term VPN is today frequently bandied around as a means to geolocate oneself elsewhere, usually to counter businesses that restrict their online services to users from within a particular region.

Many people use such countermeasures in order to enjoy the BBC’s iPlayer streaming services while outside the UK; or to make use of the expanded catalogue of film and television offered by US Netflix, in contrast to the more limited selection in the UK.

However, for simple virtual geographical relocation to gain an IP address in the required region, a proxy server is all that is required. Proxy servers can be found more readily and cheaply from various free and commercial providers, sometimes using as little as a basic web browser plug-in.

But it’s the ‘P’ in VPN that is of most benefit to those that really need it. VPN was originally devised for enterprise businesses to allow communications beyond the company firewall that could not be easily eavesdropped while traversing the public internet. As well as connecting various outposts of the company based in different cities or countries, it allowed staff to work remotely away from the office, whether from home or while on the road. Yet they could still connect securely to the company intranet transparently as if they were within the same physical building. Also see: How to use a free VPN: A step-by-step guide.

Now VPN is becoming increasingly useful for anyone that wishes to surf the internet with an element of anonymity, by helping to disguise their originating home IP address. VPN connections are also put to use for political safety; for example, in order to avoid state censorship and persecution, busting through filtering and logging at the ISP or state firewall level.

Another application may be to help sidestep the relentless tracking by commercial corporations such as social media and online advertising brokers. They now consider every net user fair game for tracking and profiling, collecting personal data and targeting advertising at us for profit. Or a VPN link may be used to minimise surveillance by the US and UK intelligence agencies that we now know record all of our online activities and personal communications.

There is the darker side of VPN use too, associated with criminals and others who try to stay off the radar of law enforcement.

In between the two opposite ends of political and criminal applications of VPN is the greyer area of peer-to-peer file sharing, for which some users prefer to avoid any possible retribution from big-media trade associations such as the MPAA by using encrypted VPN connections. Also see: How to watch US Netflix in the UK.
Best VPN services 2016 UK: Free VPN services

Everyone likes good value, and nothing looks quite as invitingly good as free. But as with any online service that is billed as free, beware that you’re as likely to be selling your soul as getting a good deal. Offers that promise free VPN connections may have dangerous strings attached.

An example is HotSpot Shield, a popular free VPN service that installs unwanted toolbars, third-party applications, corrupts your default search provider settings and then bombards the hapless user with in-line, pop-up and pop-under ads. Depending on your viewpoint, such weaponised ‘free’ software will be classed as unwanted applications at best, or malware at worst. Also see: Why you need a VPN.

It pays to read carefully the terms of service. AnchorFree, the developer of HotSpot Shield is good enough to warn you in its terms of service: “AnchorFree may deliver third-party Advertisements within the content of any web page accessed… You hereby acknowledge and consent that AnchorFree may alter the content of any web page accessed for the purpose of displaying advertisements.” (This might help: How to use a VPN: set up VPN for private browsing.)

LG G5 UK release date, specs and feature rumours: LG G5 coming on 21 Feb with dual cameras and 'accessory slot'

LG's next flagship phone, the LG G5, is set to get an early outing in 2016 ahead of MWC. We round up the rumours on the LG G5, including the expected release date, price, specifications and features. See also: Best new phones you should be excited about this year.

Latest rumours summary: LG has confirmed that the G5 will be announced on 21 February in Barcelona at MWC. Rumours suggest a metal design with a large 5.6in 4K screen (which LG has said will be 'always on', an Iris scanner, Snapdragon 820 processor, removable battery via an 'accessory slot' and dual cameras. There are leaked photos and cases showing the LG G5 which will be one of two flagship devices for 2016. LG has also announced a Quick Cover case for the phone ahead of the launch.

Jump to:

•    LG G5 design and fingerprint scanner
•    LG G5 screen
•    LG G5 iris scanner
•    LG G5 processor, memory and storage
•    LG G5 cameras
•    LG G5 battery
•    LG G5 poll



Following LG's tradition, we expected the LG G5 to be announced in late-spring 2016 and go on sale in May or June. But in mid-January a Save The Date invite landed in our inbox suggesting LG would, like its rivals Samsung, Sony and HTC, hold a press event the day prior to MWC (Sunday 21 February) in which it would unveil its next flagship. If this is indeed the G5, as we fully expect it to be, the phone could go onsale as early as March.

Update: LG has now confirmed that it will indeed be launching the LG G5 on 21 February. It tweeted the below image in gif form with the caption: "Time to play! With new friends, comes new fun. The excitement begins in Barcelona on February 21st!"

It's way too early to talk about price, but as a flagship Android phone, expect a price to match. Don't be surprised to pay £500+ for the LG G5.
LG G5 rumours: Metal body, new design and fingerprint scanner

Before we look at the rumours around the LG G5 design, the firm has gone and announced a case for the phone ahead of the big reveal. "Known as a company ahead of the times, LG took this characterization to heart by revealing the existence of the accessory before the actual product," said LG.

As you can see the Quick Cover case for the LG G5 has a window where users will get information such as date, time and notifications via the 'always on' screen of the phone. Also, a 'semitransparent mesh cover' will allow users to 'to take calls and control alarm settings without opening the case for the ultimate in convenience'.

"LG also incorporated a unique film with a glossy metallic finish to enhance the smooth and luxurious look and feel of the cover for maximum consistency with the speculative LG G5," added LG.

The image gives an idea of the size and shape of the LG G5 even though, in LG's words "does not yet exist".

How it Can Backlink With Commenting

How it Can Backlink With Commenting - In order to establish silahturahmi Atar fellow bloggers usually these actions will be undertaken, by commenting on blogs are visited. Commenting is the most powerful way to show mutual tolerance among fellow bloggers, although behind everything was tucked a purpose and other purposes .. that got Feedback or in the language of jock linkback or backlinks.


Now it is no stranger to the name because it's Comment For Backlink after previous
post about the collection of blog effects effects, this time I would love some simple tips that can mate directly employ to get backlinks to your blog. The way is simple, mate only need to type inurl: Place Keyword "This site uses KeywordLuv" or with this keyword: inurl: Place Keyword "Enable CommentLuv" in google search. (Place Keyword replaced with the keyword or keywords as you wish for example "Tutorial Blog") .See Images

With Backlink got Commenting

The real intention of this tutorial is to find blogs that use the facilities Comment Luv .. by commenting on blogs that fitted Comment Luv the first link in the last few posts will be displayed at the bottom of the poster ... ah .. ane confused ni jelasinnya .. passable see screenshot below.


Notice in writing circled, it was posting links (dofollow course) that will be included along with the comments my friend ... Choose one and then click Post Your Comment berikutlah result ...

See the article with a blue background ... it signifies that blogs are DoFollow ... One blog that uses CommentLuv is a blogger from Malaysia Denai Heart .. A few ..

The "Kong Luoi" Debate




















This phenomena not only dominates HK social scene but seems to be just as pervasive in Malaysia and Singapore.

A few years back,  there have been a huge backlash and debate on the Internet and even mainstream media on the unacceptable attitudes of some HK girls. Girls who fit the description are called "Kong Luoi" (short for HK girls but with a derogatory sideswipe at them). Its a generalisation and not all girls will have all the attributes, but you will recognise them immediately.

"Kong Luoi" (KLs) phenomenon was started as the 63.8 incident. What started as a first date went horribly wrong when the couple went into a store, and the girl bought some stuff and it came to HK$63.80. The girl expected the guy to pay but he did not and she ended up paying HK$63.80. That was not the end of it. The girl recorded a video and uploaded it on You Tube ranting and bitching what an asshole and cheap the guy was for not offering to pay HK$63.80. Her berating video pissed a lot of guys off and started the HK guys compiling things that they find unattractive in certain HK girls.

Some of the common traits:
1) "ying fun" - girls who think that they are doing guys a favour by allowing the guys to date them, hence the guys should appreciate the opportunity, thus do not expect them to go dutch or pay for anything during the date. "ying fun" = deserved to be treated well. Did you know that the trend is for girls to never even bringing their wallets with them when they go on dates.

2) "ying koi" - girls who think that it is manners and politeness for the guys to foot everything on a date just because they are girls. Very close in meaning to "ying fun" but has an element of "should have" - i.e. guys should do those things without having the need to be even discussed.

3) "tiu tik" the girls are great critics on what the guys have, what he does not have, how he carries himself, whether he is a good conversationalist, not good looking enough if they don't like anywhere close to Andy Lau, making a summation of his prospects as a future boyfriend and provider by just looking at appearance, making a minor thing into a big character flaw, etc... thus relegating all guys as also-rans.

4) "hau but thoui sum" what she says never ties in with what she really wants. Ask her what she wants to have for dinner, she will say "Mow sor wai, see tharn le" (I don't mind, anything will do), but when you suggest Japanese, she will say too much raw stuff, you suggest Indian, she will claim its too spicy, you suggest Cantonese, she will say its too oily.. and still say "kei sart, ngor mow sor wai ke, mutt yeah thou tak" (Actually, I am quite easy, whatever is OK)... you suggests steamboat, she will say it is heaty and make her have pimples ... naturally for these kind of girls, I will tell them, "lei sick chee kei le" (Go eat yourself bitch!).

5) control - she always want to be in control of the relationship, once you move from dating to a steady relationship, one of the first question she will ask is if you would mind to give her all your pay for her to manage the finances when they get married. I think its only ok in Korea and Japan, but to even entertain such a question to me shows a complete wanting of control and to see how "far they can manipulate the guy to her liking". "Kong Luoi" justifies the line of questioning as that would allow them to see how much the guy sees them as a partnership and how much he trusts her. In my words, Bullshit Baby!!! Its a control issue.

6) KLs have a very strong penchant for branded goods and wouldn't want to be caught dead with last year's bags or shoes. They are never slim enough, even though guys keep telling them they are skinny enough. Its not enough for the guys to say so, its their fellow girlfriends that have to say that they are skinny enough, and baby, girlfriends will never ever say their fellow girlfriends are skinny enough. You are in a dead end cycle.

7) KLs are hard to court even though they do not come with great credentials. The usual 5Cs (car, cash, career, credit card, condo) as so basic that many girls would never ever consider going out with someone without at least 3Cs.

8) places too much importance on outward appearances. Ever wondered why there are so many slimming clinics in HK, and also skin whitening, tummy firming, breast firming, blemish reduction laser therapy, cellulite therapy, cosmetic plastic surgery to have double eyelids, botox... The girls will claim that a large part of why they are doing this is for the guys. Eeerrr, bullshit again, maybe so if the guy is very shallow, all these things to make up for outward inadequacies stem from a dire lack of self confidence and self belief, and that is one big character flaw in KLs. It has a lot to do with the culture and upbringing values instilled, either deliberately or unconsciously.

9) expect presents and celebrations with presents on these following days: her birthday, anniversary of the mundane kind, Christmas, Valentine's Day, some even chocolates during Easter, even New Year... and

In my view, its not just in HK but in many places as well. Its an equality issue whereby many females now can earn a good living and can dictate their own lives better. Before, girls grow up to be married off and thats that. However, with the desired equality status, in relationships, many still hang onto traditional roles of males and females. But the demands on those roles are so very different now. Everyone must come into a relationship knowing full well what each other's expectations are, if not they will never be met.

In HK, there is this quite silly phrase which sums up why girls in HK are generally very spoiled ("chung whai saei"). The phrase is "low pour hai lor farn lei sack" ( the reason to have a wife is to make sure she is well taken care of and loved). There does not seem to be much wrong with that phrase except when you think about it, its a passive thing for women, and it appears to be their divine right. My quibble is if I get married, am I marrying a loving partner or a passive piece of art for me to dust and vacuum and wipe. To take care as in taking up responsibility as a man of the house, yes, that I totally agree. Hope the nuances there is cleared up.

There is a limit to what is due care and concern by the guy, and what is absolutely reprehensible behaviour. Go to HK and you will see many guys carrying ladies purses and hand bags walking with their girlfriends on dates. I am ok, in fact I think its proper to carry the purses and hand bags if they have to go to toilets or have to go and try out some clothes when out shopping. But to have the guy carrying the stuff walking all over town, is demeaning. If a guy wants to carry a handbag, he should go and buy one himself. Its not a show of how much love and concern a guy shows the girl, its for the girl to show to everyone how much control she has of him. Why not make him wear a dress as well? Thats the crux, to the KLs, its always "if you love me, you will do it" mantra, always having to prove and reprove their affections.. "if you love me, you will buy it for me"... worse "if you love me, you will buy it for me without me having to tell you"... GAWD!!!

At the end, they morph into what I like to call "high maintenance" (HM) women. HM women are not just those who require a certain monetary sum to maintain their lifestyle. To me, HM women are HM because of how their minds torture you and in turn torture themselves. I will give you a classic HM woman, the wife will ask the husband just before they go to sleep "why did you give your 2nd uncle 3 boxes of mooncakes, but you gave my brother only 2 boxes"... that my friend, is HM!!!


p/s photos: Mandy Lieu & Elanne Kong

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